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Pregnancy & Postpartum
The Fourth Trimester, What Nobody Prepares You For
The baby arrives and so does a new version of you. Both need care in those first twelve weeks.
July 16, 20267 min read
Your body is still doing enormous work
Bleeding for several weeks, afterpains during feeds, night sweats as fluid leaves your body, and a belly that stays soft for months are all part of an ordinary recovery. You are not behind.
The hormone cliff
Oestrogen and progesterone fall sharply after birth. Around day three to five many women cry over everything and nothing. If low mood, anxiety, or intrusive thoughts persist beyond two weeks, that is a signal to reach out, not a character flaw.
What actually helps
- Someone who feeds you, not just the baby
- Horizontal time in the first fortnight, more than you think
- One outing a week, not one a day
- Naming your needs out loud, nobody can read your mind
When to call someone
Heavy bleeding that increases, fever, severe headache with vision changes, calf pain, or thoughts of harming yourself or your baby all need urgent care. Ask for help early and loudly.
Plant this thought
A mother is born too. Be as tender with her as you are with the baby.
KEEP GROWING
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